The desert of the day!

The desert of the day would be mango sago with pomelo!

This desert has a deeper meaning into it than just a normal desert where people love eating.

The first taste of it would be sweet..so sweet that it makes you smile and send happiness instantaneously into your mouth...however the more you eat it...the very existence of the pomelo kinda produce a slightly bitter taste and the more you eat...the bitterness kinda linger in you mouth with a occasional sweet taste from the mango..

Does this reminds you of anything? well of course it does...its exactly what you will get from marriage!

The very beginning of most marriage starts of with a sweet beginning...lots of happiness...well it has to or else you wouldn't have wanted to get married in the first place....however i said most and not all because there are marriage that are forced and well probably not much happiness going on there...but thats not what we are interested today...

The thought of being with your love one send happiness instantaneously into your life...and maybe mouth if you enjoy kissing or....you know what....

But if you do notice...the longer it gets the duller it gets and the more boring it becomes....now thats the bitter part...well lets not blame it on lack of love...its just...that we humans are made in such a way where we get tired of something pretty easily....

Well its like eating...you might love it at first but if you have it everyday it becomes utterly disappointing in the end...it just can't satisfy you anymore...and thats the same with almost every human beings.

so...when you start seeing your wife everyday....i would say the tiredness kicks in well pretty fast..and then quarrels....blah blah blah....well the sweetness you use to have now becomes bitter... and this bitterness will eventually make its mark in your marriage...since you can choose to stop eating but...you can't choose to stop being with your wife...and divorce isn't an option...well i just simply do not like the idea...thats all..

well the chinese calls this first sweet then bitter..(xian tian hou ku) ain't sure if the pinyin is correct but i think you get the idea....

You might be thinking ain't it suppose to be the other way round...well yes it should be when it comes to study or career but not when it comes to marriage..because if its too bitter you woulnd't have wanted to get marry in the first place....make sensE? if you were to quarrel with your partner everyday and can't stand the sight of her/him....it almost impossible that marriage and spending you entire life with the person would be the first thing on your mind....neither would it have cross your mind!

Since the beginning would always be sweet...then ending would always end up with bitter..well it all depends how long does it take the bitterness to set in....well the bitterness might even take a longer time intruding your life than you remaining alive...that explains why some people can love till the very end...

But chances are its pretty slim of course...so...its not always possible to defy natural...unless you start your marriage with a bitter note....than....congratulations.. to all who started of with a sweet and extremely sweet note....well....take care and hope you pull through the tide....good luck!