Tuesday, May 09, 2006

MALES have to face their problem in these society

guys who avoid problems like me are losers! Guys can't afford to do that kinda thing...now in the past...not now...not in the future....WE males have the burden of having to face every single problem that arise and has to face it without taking the other way out of it...

As society shows males who does that can't really succeed in life...no matter what problem it is.. for example...when in army...there are things to do...guys who try to aviod it because its going to be troublesome...are that kinda guy...guys who somehow manage to get arrow but try means to get out of it are the worst of all...well i am the first kind... i try very hard not to get detected by my superiors as to not get any shit... thankfully i ain't the second kinda guy...

However its really bad enough...really you can tell if a person will be successful in life...i can list examples of everyone i think can make it...because they face their problems head on...they won't aviod it and hopefully someone else...does the job.. okie now... you may think i am talking about all those cao keng in army...well...no...i ain't talking about you!

People like vincent yes he keng...but when he was really arrowed...he does his job well and will not or seldom tries to get out of the problem....

Actually this post is about me... i find that if i don't change my attitude about the way i look at problems i will never make it...in life...as a person...i am the kinda of fusked up person who would expect the problems to vanish or solved by itself...preferably someone else will help me deal with it..

No matter what kinda problem it is....relationship...family...studies...or whatever sh!t it is...maybe because i am too spoilt since young...maybe i was too protected...but i can't blame no one..others turn out alright...but its just me...

Sometimes the problem is so serious that i am too afraid to even look at it..too afraid to approach it...too afraid to think of it...if they ever present award for being able to forget about all the problems when its just right on your doorstep and seriously doing nothing about it...i might get it...afterall i am that kinda guy...and i would say pretty good at it..myself..

All I dare to do is type this little post to remind myself that i need to do something about the problem and not to be not scared of it..but even now.. i am shaking with fear thinking of the problems that awaits my attention...damn!!

WE men has the responsibility to protect people around me...and given my currently level of courage....i can't take anymore people into my current circle... if i would be in a relationship...gosh...i will just drag another girl down...by giving her an insecure bf..or worst a coward and a guy who would run away when the face of the problem arises.

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