masturbation vs the real thing *** FOR MATURE AUDIENCE ONLY***

well well well...Is masturbation really better than the actual thing? I have no idea...but...well it really depends...i think..

I mean sometimes when you do it...you don't really manage to reach orgasm for both guys and girls...but infact its more for girls....for guys...the possibility of guys not reaching orgasm during "you know what" is ....well rather difficult but i ain't saying its not impossible...as for me...well i didn't manage to cum for couple of times...and its not because i am impotent...no no...its just... i zhai...(it means eh gan) oh for english speaking people it means (well tenacious will be a good word).

Ok enough about me...this isn't about me anyway. SO we have people saying well doing it yourself you can actually control the speed and pace and stuff...you know.. but then again you can't really touch your partner when doing it...i mean touching yourself for a gay sounds really gay...so...well..i mean unless you have a body like a female i don't really foresee a guy can touch himself and imagine touching a girl. for girls wise i have no idea...cause i have never seen a girl masturbate...damn!

Anyway...imagination is really out of the question...come on...having $50 in your hands is totally different from having $50 in your mind. And again having your hands full with b00bs is different from having B00bs in your mind?

Now now...so whats with the problem with doing it and why some people prefer masturbating as compared to the real thing? I seriously...well okie let me think about it...To me i only masturbate when...well i seriously have nothing better to do...and plus i am single and when i am in a bad mood or stress...

Now now enough about me...so why people prefer masturbating...well the only reason i could really think of is...you don't enjoy doing it with the person you are doing it with. And speaking from experience form a guys point of view...its because the guy care too much about satisfying the girl rather than satisfying himself. For example he would try veery hard to present his manhood..but going for pace or trying to hit the right spot...but the thing is...it doesn't really necessary means the girl will be impress or satisfy...***caution*** doesn't appeal to all girls...some girls like it fast and blah blah blah....*** okie now...when you care too much about creating the perfect scenario..you will end up getting it all wrong and in the end no one enjoy themseleves and it becomes a disaapointment plus awkward! ****personal note*** i am seriously speaking from experience***.

Now now...i am not saying a guy should just shoot and go...no no...your girlfriend is not a wh0re! beside you shouldn't be wasting your money on a wh0re when what you want is to shoot and go...just do it yourself be your own right-hand man and it will save you some money. Like what my brather would say...if you feel like visiting the brothel, Take out a 50 dollar note grab it in your one hand and masturbate with another hand after you shoot you will feel satisfy and you will also realise you still have the 50 dollars with you. ***caution*** i am not asking you to masturbate with the 50 dollar not..its well not clean!

now now how are you going to enjoy yourself when doing it? I ain't going to tell or teach you...this isn't a p0rn website or anything like this i am not into adult's story neither am i here to satisfy your greatest fantasy...so wank off and go try it with your girl again!

Now this discussion about masturbation vs the real thing has come to an end. I guess...anything else you will see part 2