Saturday, February 09, 2008

How can a guy tell if he is in love!

Many guys including me ain't sure if they are really in love...or is it just pure lust?

Well thank god i have finally devise a plan or way to help differentiate between love and lust...its really simple....but it took me couple of minutes thinking about it...and i hope it will do the world some good...so less women would be trick into a relationship and end up...the guy didn't really love her in the very first place...

The technique goes by asking yourself a couple of the questions below:

After making out with the girl...do you love her and think of her as much as how you would before sex? well if you do...then most probably you really are in love with the person ( not necessary applying to only straight guy).

If immediately after sex...you realize you feel disgusted, sick, don't feel like hugging her don't feel like continue kissing blah blah blah (you get the idea)...well 200% you just vittu a piece of meat.

And i would seriously...say you ain't in love with the girl and its pure lust!

Well if you do not believe in pre-marital sex or in other words you can't get the girl to sleep with you....you can try wanking...it more or less produce the same effect...no problem..

You don't even have to think of her when you wank...you just wanna go through the process of wanking or instead attaining the results from wanking..

So after you masturbate...do ask yourself the first question again....if you still love her as much as you did before you grab your dick...then i would say...congratulations to you...you are in love..

However after you wank...you just wanna go and sleep and totally got the girl out of your head...or wanting to continue watching tv or surfing the net...then i would say....90% you are no really in love.

Well if you are those who happen to think you are in the middle of both love and lust...it simply means the relationship can either go 2 ways....duh! either love or lust...

Well...but according to statistic...it will always move towards lust...in the long run....in the short run it might turn to love...but in the long run with choices being flexible (meaning lots of other girls available) it will eventually turn towards lust and you would wanna end the relationship..

You might be thinking whats with this fixed and flexible choices...well here goes...in the short run...you probably only have this one girl who you thought you are in love with...thats because there isn't any other girls available to you....because its not really possible that in all scenarios..that you would have tons of girls being there for you to choose from...its possible but chances are slim...and when you only have just one girl to choose from...well naturally you would think you love her lots..

But in the long run...with more girls coming into your life...more choices will also tend to be available...this is when you start to doubt your love...and this is also when the feelings turn towards lust and eventually...lust wouldn't help hold a relationship long enough to last....and this in turn cause a breakup..

So...if you are the sort of guy who is in the middle...then...good luck to you...if you are confident you choices are flexible even in the short run...then you might be in luck of finding true love!

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