Which are you?

Its finally happening...i am losing faith in girls.....well...not that i think they will lie to me...just that...i think... girls wouldn't want to marry a poor guy...in monetary terms... well...they might at first...but from what i see it...it wouldn't last...

These days..with so many rich people out there why would a girl wanna stick with a guy who ain't rich enough to provide her with what she wants? I mean Singapore has seriously lots of rich guys...and it not that difficult looking for one if you ain't that bad looking...

So i am saying true love do exist...but we are all human...a couple of years down the road everyone would be starting to think for themselves... yes there is still love...but there would be days where the love for yourself...which i consider the real true love would outweigh any other so call true love ever.

So when you starts to love yourself more...you would obviously...think that you deserve better and obviously...you will jump ship when the opportunity arise..

Simple scenario, imagine you as a guy earns only enough to support your family and pay the monthly bills. Then you wife is working as a secretary for some rich boss. Well given the boss is rich and they see each other most of the time...probably more than you and your wife together....the boss can provide almost everything for your wife that you can and can't.

Sex, money and more money and obviously less work. This is like the perfect guy for every lady. why wouldn't she jump ship? why would she wanna stay with you and suffer with you? well she would during the first few years...but like i say after a couple of years....everyone would start to think for themselves and no one else..so...well..what can you say to your wife? you wanna stop her happiness or let her leave you?

If you really love her and if thats what she wants...you would probably let her go right? But if you really love her you would also want to be with her...and why would you wanna let her go?

Its like the world's greatest mystery...to let her leave you or to beg her to stay...for me i will not beg a girl who wants to leave to stay put with me and suffer....its probably for the better....

now see...its hard to build faith....even after marriage you will never know....no one can predict the future...you will only know whats at the end of the tunnel when you reach the end of the tunnel...but if you ain't going to take the risk of entering the tunnel...you will never be able to find out whats at the end of the freaking tunnel..

I am probably thinking marriage is like a tunnel? And if you are just too scared to get married you will never know if it will ever work out...but if you get married you might get to witness whats the end of the tunnel...and its a 50 percent probability that it might turn out to be either good or bad...so its really up to individual...

I mean...some people prefer certainty to uncertainty...well we could probably use the neuman-morganstern model to determine if you are risk averse, risk loving or risk nuetral.

Risk averse meaning...they prefer to not marry due to the fact that they don't want to live the life of uncertainty..

Risk loving meaning those who can't wait to get marry at the very instant...

Risk neutral meaning you are indifferent between marrying and not marrying....you can either marry and guy or a girl...and it doesn't matter to you....we call these jack of all trades...

I am thinking i am probably in between risk averse and loving. which the model doesn't really have a category for that...so...i am out of the model...a error term...outcast....

Oh well...is it then better to marry at an early age of a later age? thats another question for another day..